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Its Your Story, Own It.

“Some of us cannot receive what God is doing in our lives because we are too married to our  expectations of what we thought God was going to do.”- Not a Hostage: Life Church Podcast This struck a cord with me yesterday as I listened to this podcast because I have been a hostage to my own expectations more than I would like to admit. How often do we let our expectations control our joy? How many times have you been in difficult circumstances and you pray that they will change? How many times have you felt the need to be liked, the need to be skinnier, the need to be a better mom, wife or friend? How many times have you looked at what your expectations of motherhood would be like and thought, “Where did I go wrong?” lol. When instead you can look in the mirror and realize that you are already enough for the only one who matters. You are made perfectly in His image not anyone else’s on this earth, and you will never be able to fill those shoes, so stop trying. Something that was hard for me was…

Learn As You Go

I was listening to a podcast yesterday about making your marriage a priority during motherhood. It was a good reminder that this season of the never ending mundane days, the chaotic schedules and sleepless nights is a season, and seasons come and go thank goodness! The spark that was ever present early on is dimmed out. Getting up early just to make him breakfast isn’t the biggest priority because you have been up with kids half the night. The date nights seem few and far between because the chaos of the kids’ schedules take up too much time. Instead of spending time together when the kids are in bed, you are on your phone. There are a million and one excuses that you can use as to why your marriage isn’t a priority anymore. What happens when twenty years from now and your kids are gone; who are you left with, a stranger or your best friend? During this season it is so hard to continue to make your marriage a priority. Motherhood is exhausting, you give so much of yourself sometimes the last thing you want to do is keep giving. Making your marriage…